I’ve read a blood boiling article from Jack Ma, China most famous billionaire and entrepreneur. He is the founder of Alibaba.com and TaoBao.com. He might be average looking but his word will definitely made an strong impact and impression to you. Read on and see if you agree with me =)
5 Characteristic Of Immature People
First Characteristic: You Want Your Reward Now!
He do not understand that you have to plant in Spring in order to harvest in Fall.
Many people, when it comes to effort , they contribute a little bit , and expect to be rewarded immediately. (For example stock investing , martial art , cooking and so-on. They felt difficult when they first started, they quit immediately when obstacle arise.)
Many people do business,result sucks at the beginning ,and they feel like giving up. Some people give up in a month , some three months , some six months ,and some people give up after a year.
I do not understand why people give up so easily, But I knew that giving up is a habit, a habit that typical loser have. Therefore you need a vision to look farther , the vision is for you to look at the future!
To those people who have the habit of givng up easily in life, I have a word for you :
” Winners never give up , those who give up never succeed .”
So why do people give up easily then?
A Famous American success guru Napoleon Hill once said: Poor people have two typical mindset that keep them poor:
- always say “No”to opportunity
- always want to “get rich quick”
Today you put every opportunity in front of him , he would say “no”. Let’s say your restaurant business very successful, you share your success story of your restaurant business to your friends and family, and you encourage them to open restaurant too… Can you guaranteed that they will do as you said? there will still be people who do nothing right?
So this is a very typical mentality of the poor , he would say : “You can but that doesn’t mean I can! .”
When you share your restaurant business success to those “Get Rich Quick”er….
His first question will be ” Good Earning? ,”
you say, ” Yes good earning ” ,
He immediately asked the second question , ” is it easy? ”
you say, ” yes it’s easy.”
Then he followed the third question “quick ROI?”
you say, ” yes quick ROI” !
*ROI=Return On Investment
Then he said, “Well, I do ! ”
Oh dear, you see he was so naive !
Let us think , is there a “GOOD EARNING , EASY, and QUICK ROI” business in this world?
There isn’t!
Even if there is, only the big player will stand a chance to own it! That’s why we must be willing to put in effort to pursue your dream!
So why do you have to put in effort?
Because you are in pursuit of your dreams, and hopes and dreams is the key that keep us alive.
If a person has no hopes and dreams , then life will not have much meaning !
In order to get what you want in your live , you have to first give what you want.
You want more time, you must first give your time.
You want more money, you must first give your money.
You love your hobby, you have to first sacrifice your hobby.
You want to have more family time together , you must first spend less time together with your family.
However, one thing is clear, what ever you give, you will receive multiple time in return.
Like a seed , you plant it ,water it, fertilize it , weeding, insecticide.
Finally when you reap from the harvest it is not several times, but a hundred times more in return.
In life, you have to learn how to give , don’t go for get rich quick scam , delay instant gratification, there is no free lunch in this world, you can not succeed easily without fighting hard for it .
We must learn how to give !
2nd Characteristic: Lack Of Self Discipline.
3 specific area people lack of self discipline
1.Stay Stagnant :
You must change the way of thinking and your behavior patterns. You have to get rid of your bad habits.
In fact, there is not much difference between people’s capability , but different ways of thinking .
Example:
Ask winner and loser when things happen ,
Their answers are different, or even contrary .
We did not succeed today is because did not think like a winner.
A good formula is :
When you plant “think” , you will harvest “action” ,
When you plant “action”, you will harvest “habit” ,
When you plant “habit”, you will harvest “Character”,
When you plant “Character”……
It will decide your fate .
But if you plant “failure” , you will certainly harvest failure ,
If you planted “success” , then you will be successful.
People have many bad habits ,such as watching TV, play mahjong , drink , clubbing, so-on….
They knew it’ was bad , but why don’t they change?
Because a lot of people would rather stick with bad lifestyle ,but not willing to endure the pain of changes bring.
2. Talk bad about others:
In life, if you like to talk bad about others , then one day it will pass back to you,
A famous quote from Mark Twain~
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3. Negative , Complaint:
Which person do you like the most?
Those who frown and complaining all day about everything ?Or those people who is happy all day long ? If you are those who are negative, always complain about people and things in your life , you have to change this defective behavior in your character. If you don’t change, it is difficult for you to adapt to the society. Your can’t cooperate with people too .
you need to understand that ,
Life will treat you the way you deal with your life.
Others will treat you the way you treat others too.
So stop being negative and stop complaining in life.
You must be positive, and stay positive FOREVER ,
Winners never complain, those who complain never win.
Third characteristic: Often Swayed By Emotion
5 factors that decide if a person is successful:
- Able to control their emotions
2. A healthy body
3. Good interpersonal skill
4. Good Time Management
5. Good Financial Management
You must learn to manage these five factors if you want to succeed.
Why emotions 1st, stay healthy 2nd?
Because even if you’re a strong guy , bad mood will harm your body and destroy your health.
Today a person succeed 20% by IQ, 80% on emotional intelligence,
So you have to control your emotions , emotional had great impact on human body.
Don’t rage for one small thing ,this is not good for your health!
So what attitude should we develop on?
You have to develop “3 Don’t” , “3 More” :
DON’T Criticize, DON’T Complain, DON’T Blame ;
Encourage MORE, Praise MORE, Appreciate MORE .
You will become the most liked figure by your community .
If you want your partner to be more excellent , very simple, encourage and praise them MORE.
Even if they did something wrong , then what should you do ?
Should you give them advice? In life you will find such phenomenon ,
Some people can accept when others give them suggestion, but some people will get angry when others give them suggestion.
In fact, proper approach is the most important key, which is praise , suggest, and then praise again! *This proved as the best way to approach “Y” and “Z” generation when dealing with them..
Try to think of how many people have your praise in a day?
Some people may think that praise is touted , is flattering .
Praise and touted are totally different, praise has four characteristics:
1.Sincere
2.From the heart
3.Accepted by the public
4.Selfless
If you praise with a strong purpose, then that is flattering .
When you praise someone, you have to say it out loud ,
When you want to criticize others, be sure to bite your tongue !
Fourth Characteristic: Lazy to learn, self-righteous , Don’t “Empty Your Cup.”
In fact, there are many similarities between humans and animals , animals has a stronger self-protection instinct than people (baby swine and mother swine)
But the biggest difference between people and animals is that……
Human know how to Think and Learn.
We human need to keep learning , you do not bury your talent and potential,
Be sure to learn , we must have an “Empty Your Cup” mentality.
Who should we learn from? Learn from successful people around you!
You should always learn something positive , do not look and listen to those negative things .
Once you absorb those toxic thoughts, it will corrode your soul and life.
In this era of Information Age, continues learning is the only passport towards the future.
You have to keep learning to stay ahead of time , always have an open mind and empty your cup when it’s necessary.
Fifth Characteristic: Rely on OPINION instead of FACT.
We use to say that BELIEVE is the start, PERSISTENT is the end. People tend to make decision based on peoples opinion instead of fact. They are not 100% confident in what they’re doing, believe and belief are two different concepts, believe is visible,belief is invisible.
Faith is an attitude of humanity, but many people do not have faith on dreams they pursue, they rather listen to what people have to say. Let’s say you wanna reach the top of a mountain , you must seek guidance from those who have reached the top, not asking people who never climb mountain in their lifetime.
I’m not saying that don’t listen to the advice of others , you can treat it as a reference. You have to remember that you are doing this business in order to achieve your dreams and achieve your own values. Other people do not care about your dreams , only you care about your own dreams , only you can truly care about your own success . This is the most important message I have for you !
As long as your choice is correct , never care about how people say. I’ve shared with you five characteristic of an immature people , do a self reflection on yourself , check if any of the characteristic matches your own. Then correct your mindset within the shortest possible time, as long as you believe you can beat your own immaturity , you will gradually grow, mature, and you’ll get the kind of life you want. You will achieve time, location , and fin.ancial fr.eedom to manifest your dreams into reality!
Thank you for reading till this end! I understand that this is quite a lengthy article. But it was a powerful read! It boost my spirit after reading it. I hope I added value to you today.